According to my darling daughter she is leaving it all up to the cosmos at the moment confident that it will all work out in her favour because she is a good person and she deserves good things.
But is that what is really happening or have the fates decided that she should do nothing because that is what they need her to be doing right now............so is her decision hers to make or not? By thinking that she is not influencing the future is she is fact doing exactly that? Do they have contingency plans for if she decides to take a different route and actively believe she is taking her fate into her own hands instead? How will an earlier decision about this coming weekend impact on the doing nothing theory - who might she meet whilst she is doing this thing and what will that spark off? Am I tying you in knots yet Becs? These are the sort of paralysing questions that frequently occupy our thoughts: the age-old 'do nothing' theory:- 'When in doubt, don't'. But what if it was 'when in doubt, do' instead? What if all this standing around doing nothing is just a waste of time and the parallel reality is so much better if only we dare consider that it exists? Is playing safe always the right way to go, or should we go down the 'feel the fear and do it anyway' path? I don't know. Do you?